My wife Karen , out of the blue says she wants to start swinging. She tends to be very driven, and usually gets what she wants. I asked her why she wants to do that. She tells me she feels it will spice up our relationship, she thought our marriage was getting stale. I am not sure how I even got her to date me let alone marry me. Since I have been Bi-curious for awhile now.
Dear Mary: I coaxed my wife to try swinging and now she refuses to give it up
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Many wives have never seriously considered sharing their man with another woman or for them to be with another man. Swinging and non-monogamy is usually a foreign idea that can take a good bit of time to understand. If you want to get your wife to swing, you will want to carefully explain to her the advantages of swinging and why you are interested in swinging. Your wife is likely going to have many reservations and worries. That is normal, so be extra understanding even if it tests your patience. Swinging is likely a very new idea to her and you have probably already researched it a good bit so give her time and space to catch up. You may feel that variety is the spice of life but she might not be ready to see it that way.
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Search Search. Menu Sections. This is a very difficult situation which I have more or less brought upon myself. It all started so simply and yet it has turned my life upside down.
Mid 30s, married, physically fit, attractive, fun loving. He was there as a single man, while I was there with a girlfriend. It would seem as though swinging was meant to be, just a natural progression of sorts. A few years later, we found ourselves married and living in Las Vegas. As all of our friends and family were back East, and we found ourselves spending a lot of time together.