She knows how to get herself off. Because if she already knows what she likes, it's that much easier for you to know what she likes, so you don't feel like you're playing "guess how to make me come" at a sex carnival. Also, if she doesn't know how to get herself off, you need to help her immediately because that's not OK. She feels comfortable telling you what she does and doesn't want.
You Asked It: My GF Wants Sex. I Don’t.
I don’t want to have sex with my girlfriend now that she moved in with me. What happened?
Taking the time to check in with yourself like this is super healthy. Keep it up! Different people feel comfortable with different things at different times in their lives. This is ridiculous and totally false.
I barely have the desire to have sex with my girlfriend – but desperately wish I did
To create this article, people, some anonymous, worked to edit and improve it over time. This article has been viewed 4,, times. Learn more If you've been with your girlfriend for a long time -- or not so long -- and are ready to take your relationship to a more intimate level, you must be wondering if she's feeling the same way. Though you may think it's easier to just ask her what she wants, saying, "Wanna have sex?
We have only slept together twice in the past year. How can I love and be in a relationship with someone I no longer desire? You have asked a question to which there is no satisfactory answer — unless you decide to prioritise all other aspects of your relationship over sexuality.